Sometimes we find ourselves in relationships that resemble a train wreck much more than a loving relationship where two people share common interests, admiration and respect. However, these toxic, train wreck unions sometimes become a vicious cycle of fighting and making up only to fight again. Needless to say, it’s detrimental to a person’s state of mind and self esteem.
Here are just a few Red Flags that indicate that you’re in a train wreck of a relationship, in case you haven’t noticed:
-You curse and disrespect each other often if not all the time.
-You don’t respect each other’s privacy.
-You don’t trust the person you’re in a relationship with. (Constant accusations of being unfaithful and cheating)
-You make up after you’ve said the most atrocious things to one another, broken walls and threatened each other physically.
-If you feel a nagging resentment for your spouse/boyfriend or girlfriend.
-You can’t even hold the simplest conversation without it turning into a full blown out fight.
These are some of the many common traits of downward spiral relationships. If you find yourself in one and this has been going on for longer than you can even remember. It’s time MOVE ON. Not only are you ruining your life but that one of your spouse/boyfriend and vice versa. Someone in the relationship has to conjure up the courage to put an end to the viciousness. It’s not fair to any of you.
Sometimes things can end up even worse than the miserable days you impose on one another. Put an end to it before something you can’t walk away from happens that will indefinitely ruin your lives. Couples counseling also may be helpful. But when you’ve gone this far, at least a good break from each other to reflect on your relationship is recommended.
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